One of the most detrimental qualities for any relationship is ego. This is the time when the mind refuses to work, and ego scores above unconditional love and sweetness. It has the ability to rip the relationship apart and throw both of you off track. If you are facing problems in your relationship and wish to save it, you need to surrender ego. It is a difficult task but at the same time it is worth it as it will bring the loved one in your life back.
Forgive and forget
If you believe that the bitterness in the relationship is because of the other person, remember that he/she is a human being. Human beings are bound to err. No one is perfect enough to do things correctly and we all commit mistakes in our lives. The trick to saving your relationship here is to forget the past and forgive especially if the mistake was done unintentionally. When you forgive the other person, this does not mean that you are less than him/her. It displays that you are strong and wise enough to forgive the other person and improve the relationship you have. The magic of making up reviews.
Keep ego aside
Ego is the worst part of any relationship and it will always hold you back to bring your loved one back to you. When two people move apart, there is always a question who is going to break the ice first? As mentioned above, ego generally will drive you to wait and not walk up to the person. If you really value the person in your life than what is it that is letting you down? If you really from heart wish to make up for the lost moments and have the person back in your life, keep the ego aside and bring back the sweetness by going up first to the other person.
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Conversations always work
It is best to talk and clear up confusions in the relationship. You want to get back the same feeling of belongingness and sweetness. It will come back. What you have to do is talk. You should never hide feelings even if you fear the worst. What could get worse- there is already so much of bitterness in the relationship. Have a heart to heart talk with your loved one. It may so happen that there is something you did not know. It surfaces and both of you can work on a solution together. Does magic of making up work?
To save a relationship, you should start afresh. This is the motto. Let bygones be bygones. The past will never bring you happiness in the future. Allow yourself to be focused on the present and relationship. To have a loving, caring and successful relationship, it is important for you to keep the ego aside. Ego will never bring you happiness but your loved one will. So, why keep your ego when you have your loved one there beside you. This is how you can save your relationship from breaking.
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